MommyToBe! asked:


I accepted a job offer a little over weeks ago. However, after accepting the offer, I discovered I'm pregnant after a few days. I 'm course to begin tomorrow and really confused about whether I should start. It 'position of the management of high-level SA with a financial services company. I 'm about 5 weeks pregnant and I know that the first 3 months are critical in a pregnancy. I 'm afraid the tension would affect the pregnancy and that the travel. However, I still haven 't had any morning sickness at all. I feel very well so far. I don 't plan to work after giving birth and I thought it would be unfair to start a job knowing that I' ll resign possibly in the next few months. The thing that I was cheating towards work is the salary - six figures. I know I'm selfish but I was estimated that perhaps I should work for a few months and be able to save some money and all come with the baby. What do you think? What you would do in my situation? Just tell the pattern that I 'm not start …. Or the operation of the start and then just resign? At the same time I'm also concerned about the tension that affected pregnancy … as the cause of miscarriage (God forbids). But that 's what my family has been scaring me. They're traditional. This seems like a very difficult decision for me. So hard to decide. My husband is supporting me with any decision made …

ineedtono asked:


When my husband and I got preggy the first time was so nervious because it was unexpected. I didn 't have anything! Anxious because I started thinking about all the things you need to care for a child properly. Unfortunately, we had a miscarriage and the doctors weren 't able to tell us why. (I was so distraut upon him) However, in the positive, I can plan for the next. I don 't want it to happen for another 6 years, because I want to finish school, and this will be the time that discharge from the military. I have my own business and want to buy a house. I would like the baby had an investment and I don 'of savings from the university; t want to work. Now, in consideration of diapers and clothes, are 6 years too early to plan? picosegundo. I don 't want to work because I want my child go to school. I 've already started to buy clothes for a baby (only items in the sale) and I plan on putting aside compartmentalized storage and putting. Oh and one more thing … to change clothes and styles, now advance, AME little dresses she wore as lttle baby, were so beautiful and I still like them. I have only one team wearing when he was a baby and I wish I had more. Think of them as vintage. I don 't really care about "what is in" Quality Care.